Got Rope?

from http://xkcd.com/443/

Almost 2 years ago I was on Adult friend Finder..   this was before I found my Kink.

I met up with a girl who after chatting , we realized she was woman who just moved out of apt above me.

Well we ended up enjoying each other for a while, and then it petered out.

To help me move on, I restarted my ALT and AFF profile, she spotted me and said hi.  We ended up talking about my new found kink and she was interested,  little while later she was over and we were playing with some rope.

Later while chatting..  she said.. “When we first met I thought you were a Top just taking a break and playing Vanilla”

Given where I am heading.. that was a nice compliment

Yes way over due for some posts..

My adventure with *LittleA* came to an end today..  much to post and update about my experiences

ALT has been a good experience.   I have been using online dating for some time now and filtering the fakes has never been an issue.

Made one very good friend *Snarky* from going on ALT and thanks to her I have grown a little bit more in the local BDSM Community meeting more new people.

But recently I met a gem..    *Little a*    I had redone my profile to better reflect where I was and then looked for promising profiles and spent an evening sending out mail on ALT.

I heard back very quickly from her, chatted briefly flirted a bit.. Pretty soon I was on phone with her talking while she watch me on webcam do some rope ties on my practice dummy.    Made for a very nice night.

We made plans to meet up..   Dinner and some pool  and just go from there.   Started off a little distant, but by end of dinner, personal space was pretty well gone..  We talked about everything from relationships to kink to movies.

Her friend called her and wanted to go out.   The three of us went to a local gothy night ..   I brought rope >

By end of night I had put her in 2 different chest harnesses , and had her arms pinned back for a bit..   Whole time getting some very nice looks from people in club..  At one point when she was in washroom she got some comments on how sexy the rope was on her

*Segway*  I really liked being watched while I tied *Little a*,  that is something I want to do more of.. and work a bit on showmanship esp with *Little a*

End of night was nice, both did not want to end.  and very nice kiss to cap it all off
Since that night we have seen each other a few times..   A nice trip to art museum,  Dinner with close friends of mine, and later time alone with her

Break out glow in the dark rope of course!

http://www.glorope.com/catalog/index.cfm?Cat=1&SubCat=6

I just could not resist..  I bought 100 feet of it.. should be here soon..

I just recently did my first full suspension on my own. Took a little bit to convert concepetual over to reality but once things got going they flowed well and I was very happy with my first time.

*A* was amazing, I really did not expect that she would be able to stay at all for any lenght of time as it was first time for her as well. In end she was very happy with being suspended and wants to again soon

Made some changes for next time that would be major improvements:

I am much more a fan of MFP than hemp, I just like the feel of it and the colors.  But!!  I did find I had issues using it for the suspension.  Next time I do, I will use hemp, just due to how it bites into it’s self.

Also, I only have 7 feet of ceiling, and almost 2 feet of that is consumed by the block and tackle the ring and more..   so I went off afterwards and bought this ..

I can lift my own weight one handed, and the cleat at the top makes for very quick lock off at the height I want with out trying to hold a cute girl up, and safely tying off the end at right height.

Here is the ‘Jungle Gym’

(click for bigger image)

I spent the President’s day long weekend ripping out my spare room , converting it from storage to a nice place to play.

On walls I have 3 mirrors nicely highlighted with candle sconces

The gym it’s self is right in middle with my toys nicely at hand. I also set up a spare laptop and brought an small sound system for room.

Still some storage in there, but it is hidden from view behind a table with cloth and some folding screens.

Yes a post about the weekend to come very soon.. but this bit of chat today had to be shared.

*A*:  one thing I find strange is seeing people with a leash on there neck and no one holding on to it
Jay: yes
Jay: I agree
*A*:  if you are going to let your slave off the leash, take the leash off
Jay: there needs to be the MSPCA of BDSM.. the just rounds up the lost subs
*A*:  *laughs*

So this coming weekend is basically New England’s largest Fetish event.. http://www.nelaonline.org/fff.php

I booked off a 1/2 day on Friday, will drive down and meet up with *OtK* for dinner (Greek is plan so far)

That night is a Fashion show and some performances, I know a few of the models and will be nice night. I did not book a room for Friday, so may crash on friends floor, but most likely will head home that night.

*A* is coming out and am looking forward to *OtK* and her meeting.. hope they get a long I think they will.

Expanding my experiences, *A* and I are going to try a more formal D/s relationship at the Flea and see how that works, both new and both curious.

Beyond that, I am looking forward to all the classes, and going to pick up even more toys!! TwistedMonk is going to be there and I plan to buy some hemp rope to play with.

Should be a nice report early next week of how the weekend went.

So the contraption is now the “Jungle Gym”

On my birthday *A* came by early before party to play, and I quickly found there is an issue with Contraption Mk III, while a nice box, it gets in way of swinging a flogger. Also *A* had nothing to lean on, after her hands started to fall asleep from being over her head. So.. made a few more mods.

- The box can now be made more narrow to more of an arch with a stable base. (about two and a half feet wide)

- I added an adjustable cross bar that I can put at any hight across width of arch to be used for support, tie point or so on.

- after watching clips on www.thebondagechannel.com I added a small adjustable bar to use to attact toys to and keep at just the right hight.

After all those upgrades, I decided a much nicer name is Jungle Gym I have since packed it up and it is sitting under couch. but next time I will take and post pictures

Speaking of pictures. I put some up www.riggerjay.com/gallery Can’t share much, those are ones I have had permission to by lovely ladies in the photos.